Tuesday, August 12, 2008

这个月来的惊吓....




这个月来,不知为什么,事情都是排山倒海的涌进来!
非常忙,压力也超大!
所以,一个月后的今天才有空,有心情写Blog.....

别以为我平时在节目中嘻嘻哈哈的,其实我只是暂时抛开烦恼,
非常专业及尽心尽力地把节目做好,以免辜负听众.
自己的事,等下班后再烦.....

上个月,因为女佣不诚实,所以找到了一位新的来取代.
怎么知道请的这位新的女佣,精神有点问题,身体还有非常严重的体臭味!
我还买了名牌的除体味济给她....也对她非常好......
怎么知道,她每晚不睡觉,白天精神恍惚.....可能想家.....
结果,第五天,就乱喊乱叫,嚷着要回去!!
看她这样,我们吓呆了!马上为她做安排,把她送走,以免她真的发神经起来,就糟糕了!!

因为短时间内是不可能请到新女佣的,所以只好自己当Maid........
还好,老公也一起分工,不然,一定撑不了!


做家务还无所谓,最多辛苦一点.

最头痛的还是孩子.....不可能丢给妈妈和家婆,让她们辛苦嘛.所以,就决定把孩子带到托儿所去.

怎么知道,儿子因此患上焦虑症.

天天哭,天天怕我们扔下他不管,紧紧的抓住我们.

每晚还做恶梦!每天都很不开心.甚至病倒了!......发了4天的高烧!

也许他年纪太小了,或许他还没有足够的心理准备,我们就这么扔下他,所以把他给吓着了!

听取几位专家的劝告后,马上停止让他上托儿所,以免受到更大的心理创伤!

大家的建议是:如果家里有人看孩子的话,其实,最好是去上一到两个小时的豆豆班就够了,何必去上托儿所呢?

虽然他只受到一个星期的惊吓,但是已经足以让我们辛苦的了!

到现在,他还是偶尔哭闹,白天要粘着我们.不过,看得出他渐渐变得比较开朗了!

听心理学家周美玲博士说,可能需要2个月的时间,才会慢慢忘掉恐惧,恢复以往的活泼.

嗨!看到孩子这样,真是好心痛!

还好,现在,已经请到新的女佣了,她也差不多做了2个多礼拜了!希望一切还好!

最近,也主持了一场星光灿烂的户外活动"Bio essence 百人紧肤大挑战"!

还特别请来了远自香港的影星黎姿和新传媒艺人陈丽贞!

另外,我也在主持了另一场在Suntec的户外活动后,特别去参观今年的新加坡花园节的展览.真的非常漂亮!

最近,也忙于我们8月份的换班节目..... (<<最爱粉佳人>>现在是从早上10点到下午2点. 希望你还喜欢我在节目上的安排!)

最糟的是主持新班次的第4天,竟然吃错东西,上吐下泻,非常辛苦,然后请了一天的病假!

想想,两个小时,坐在马桶上,象生孩子一样......还冒了2大毛巾的冷汗!! (我生孩子都没有那么辛苦!)

终于,熬过了食物中毒的折腾.第二天竟然发现,尿道发炎,尿出血了!!....吓死我和老公了!

星期六早上,我还是照常值早班.虽然心里担心,但是没有把情绪带进节目中.

值班的同时,我联络了经常上我的节目的妇产科也是泌尿科的Dr Chong,请示他病情.他说要马上治疗.所以,下班后,老公便立刻载我去求医.

Dr Chong马上帮我注入4只抗生素的药,帮我清洗尿道,还给了一堆的药,要我按时服用!

他说如果再迟些治疗的话,细菌就会跑到肾脏,如果发高烧的话,就会更复杂了!!

还好,现在我已经康复了! : )

唉!这个月都是在惊吓中度过...... 希望接下来,一切顺顺利利!平平安安!健健康康!开开心心!

32 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi Violet,

Take care and all the best.

Anonymous said...

Dear Violet...
Wow.. hearing ur story make me little worried... cos I was planning to put my coming 2 year old gal to childcare, dun wanna tire my mom out mah .. guess must re-consider liao...

Btw, can help me ask Prof Lau if my gal still using pacifier now, in future when we stop her, will she start grinding her teeth?
And how to gradually stop her from taking pacifier now? She's not very addicted to it.. But my mom always give it to her when she sleeps, so now she has to sleep with it.. but when she wakes up she will ask us to keep for her.. ^0^

Tks...

U take care...

Cheers
Lin

Anonymous said...

Hi Violet,

My son (seven years old) recently always have bock nose at night especially when laying to sleep at night and day time he is okay. Can you help me to check with doctor Lau why, tks.

Mdm Chang

DJ Violet 粉樱 said...

Hi Lin,
Hope you did not miss dr low's answer to your question.
Regarding sending your child to childcare, maybe your child is braver than mine. If she like to play with others, should be ok. : )

Mdm Chang, your message came after dr low left, so did not manage to answer your question. Maybe next time you post again when dr low is here again. : )

Thanks

Anonymous said...

hi violet,

understand ur situation now, m just kena urinary tract last sunday, very painful, lucky aft taking medicine now feel slighty ok liao, but still got bit uncomfatable lor...i got this attact few times liao lei..nightmare!

ting ting

MamiWu said...

Violet
"Jia you"
all the best

Anonymous said...

Hi Violet, Ting Ting

Last month, I also got it twice. Really very scare. According to my doctor he said didnt drink enough water, is it true? Violet, can check with Dr Chong n how to solve this problem.

Violet, take care.

Judy

sweetie mummy said...

Hi Violet,

Sorry to hear that you were having so many problem at home. Hope everyone is fine now.

Please take care.

You are really professional. Salute u. keep it up.

See u soon if I'm able to dial in for the Bakerzin baking lesson for my gal.

Anonymous said...

Hi Violet Fen Ying

I am so sad leh. U didn't choose my children to attend the baking class. Can you arrange more of this type of class. It is really interesting and fun.
Thanks.
Jennifer Yap

Anonymous said...

Hi violet,

Wow,it's really interesting-the baking class for kids.Like you programme very very much, always have "NEW" things to explore and learn.Oredi enrolled my boy and niece for the baking class.Keep up the good work...Jia You, Jia You.

Thank you!

wendy

Anonymous said...

Violet

Will u organise a baking class conduct by Aunty Irene, would loves to attend her class if there is any.

Cheryl Lim said...

wow! very exciting month hor... but glad you were able to "tahan"... you are super woman!

Anonymous said...

i oso hv a lot of problems tis wk. let jiayou ba...

Ann

Anonymous said...

Hi Violet

Very sorry to hear that you have so many problems and ill. Hope everything are fine with you right now.

Take care!

Anonymous said...

Hi Violet & Prof Ng

I'm Joanne My son now is 17month but still not understand wat we talk n can't speak papa or mama ve visit doctor n ask to see doctor at CHILD DEVELOPMENT UNIT NUH

Oink Oink said...

Violet,

When Auntie Irene told me abt your 发神经maid yest, found it very funny, remind me of 1 of my bro's maid, lagi jialat, pretend to faint, 还劳驾了警察上门。

Hope your new maid is good, I understand how busy it is w/o a helper at home.

:-D

Anonymous said...

hi doc chong & violet

i took pi yun pill for many yrs, but since last Dec 07 aft took the pill m waited menses to came b4 continue my next mths consumption, but my menses didnt turned up at all fr Dec 07 till Today! In btw i did consult gynea and gynea gave me medicine for my menses to come, and i took e medicine but menses only came in 1 hr aftward no more menses, then i went SGH, they gave me colonscopy, and the result was perfect then they schedulle me for abnorminal/pelvic CT scan, the result also ok....i really dont know what to do aldys...my menses still absent! my whole body is swollen, like water retaintion, i hv gained 7kgs! pls help me!

tq

jaslyn

Anonymous said...

Hi dr chong & fenying

Need help, since young i don't suffer any forms of pain. But recently, i suffer sharp pain in my lower abdomen..so pain tat i cannot walk straight..move slighly also pain. Pse adv what causes it and any remedy. Tks :)

Apple

Anonymous said...

Hi Fenying and Dr Chong,

I Sometimes had this problem of trembling with coldness for 5-10mins at night usually before 2 to 3days before my menus. The chilling cold makes you cannot even grab your blanket by your side. I do not sleep in the air-con. I am 38yrs old and had given birth 10yrs ago. What cause this and any cure?
Thks.

Anonymous said...

粉樱和医生:
你们好!我想请问如果怀孕22星期发现羊水不够。现在该怎么办。医生说如果羊水不够宝宝要拿掉,不能留。现在该怎么办才能增加羊水呢?


ai lun

Anonymous said...

Hi Fenying

take care
因为你是我照顾孩子的明灯。

Anonymous said...

haha!Finally U got a gd maid!guess wat,my new maid just ran away ,leaving my two v young kids @ home for 8days...so scary yah!Maids reali hv lots of problems but w'out dam is aso a Big Problems lor!I understand ur situation!

Anonymous said...

can help me ask sylvia...
my gal is cmg 2years old, I breastfed my gal for 7mths... after tt till now, breast is small, nipples like "sleeping".. have asked my gynae, but she said bec. am too skinny.. but I din go on diet or watsoever... how can i help to improve my nipples?

Anonymous said...

Hi Violet & Dr Chong,

Thanks you very much.

Regards

Judy

Margaret said...

hi Fenying

Learnt about your episodes with your past maids, really feel sorry for you. Think luck play a part in the maid selection. We can't tell from their appearance if they have a weak mind or bad attitude. Particulary if one encounter those who get stressed easily and can't adapt with new environment, really very problematic. I consider myself fortunate when selecting the right maids to take care of my late father when he suffered from stroke. Though they chose to leave after contract ended & we had to train a new one all over again, luckily one is better than the other.

hope u will overcome the situation and settle with a good maid.

sweetie mummy said...

Hi Violet,

Please take care of yourself. U don't sound good.

Did u manage to bring yr son to the bakerzin baking class last wkend?

DJ Violet 粉樱 said...

Thanks to sweeetie mummy's concern.
Me today still husky voice leh.
Hope will be better soon.

My son did went to the baking class. very fun. Will put up the pictures soon! I am so sorry for those who did not manage to get this chance to join us as we really have limited seats. Really must count on luck. Maybe can join us in our next activities! Stay tuned ya!

: )

Anonymous said...

Hi Violet

Can I trouble you to ask Prof, I have about 3 years old son. He have the tendency to quarrel with other people/kids when the other person stares at him. He will either shout back on the kid or pick up a quarrel. I am really worried about he picking up fight in the school.

Another issue he have is that he will wake up middle of the night saying, " i dont want mummy, u go away," and really chase me out of the room. but when he didnt see me, he will cry and shout for me back. This happened quite often. What should I do?

Thanks in advance.

Regards

Jean

Anonymous said...

Dear Violet,

Good Morning,
just turn on 97.2, can i know which
doctor is on air, and i got a question to ask. How we know whether this child is a hyper active child?

Thank you and best regards

Anonymous said...

Hi Violet,

Can u post what the 2 lady doctors said last week about

1. When is the best time to massage the breast and how to do it?
2. When and what food to eat?

Because I miss it (Boss in) and cannot attend the seminar as I will be working on that day. Sian ...

Take care.

Thank you very much.

Anonymous said...

Hi Feng ying,
Regard abt ur cooking bk why only
2k(pcs) should at least 5k(pcs)which is only some percentage of s'porean.
rgds-jen

菱儿 said...

hi粉樱你好,好好听的名字哦!最近一直在听你主持的节目,今天特地上网找到你的博客,看到我想象中的美女,呵呵!记得我刚来新加坡的时候生病也是尿道发炎,因为第二天就要到澳大利亚去所以要求医生开最好的药给我,不过医生还特地嘱咐我一定要多喝水,在飞机上要隔一个小时就要喝水,呵呵因为平时很怕喝多水要上洗手间所以不怎么喜欢喝水。
对了想问一下哦,每次听好爸爸好妈妈的节目时候都会听到一个孩子的笑声,每次听我都会忍不住地笑,那个笑声给我们带来了很多快乐,请问是不是你儿子的声音啊?