Friday, October 16, 2009

孩子心理健康的五大营养


这是儿子和他的一些同学.

孩子都是可爱聪明的,家长在关心孩子的学业当儿,也要注意他们的心理健康.....

今天在节目中,我和善友辅导中心的jane就与听众分享了"孩子的心理健康所需的五大营养".
分别是:
1,肯定
2,自由
3,情感
4,宽容
5,梦想

1,肯定
要肯定孩子的考试成绩,让孩子树立信心。不要吝啬伸出你的大拇指,赞扬你的孩子。
2,自由。
你能代替你的孩子未来的生活吗?不能。可现实生活中,方面的表现却并不能尽如人意。不要让孩子死读书,读死书。不要禁锢了孩子的思想,使孩子缺乏创造能力。鼓励孩子博览群书,让孩子的心灵与大师碰撞(说得太好了!)。把自由还给孩子,让孩子多读书(不是教科书),每天哪怕只读10分钟都好,养成良好的读书习惯和关注力。

3,情感。
孩子的情商非常重要,卡耐基成功学表明,一个人的成功,15%来自智商,85%来自情商。(举例略)。要培养孩子善良、关爱、感恩的品格。当孩子成为学习的工具的时候,冷漠就成为必然了。要在家庭营造关爱的气氛,培养孩子的感恩心。社会上弑母的例子,大都是以为家庭的冷漠造成的。父母要从自己的言行上,给孩子创造感恩的机会。感恩的心,从生活的点滴做起。

4,宽容。
孩子犯错,是一个必经的阶段,父母要学会宽容,给孩子有自醒的机会,让孩子有改正的机会,这也是对孩子独特个体的尊重。宽容是孩子心灵成长的氧气。

5,梦想。
要鼓励孩子实现他的理想。
大家一起共勉之.....
:)

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

hi
i wasn't able to hear the complete of your program yesterday. now i know what are they. thanks for posting the helpful info.

angelia

L-5 said...

Violet

U're the best!!! :D

Cheers!!!

Anonymous said...

Hi Fenying

Saw the info you posted. Very true. Guess I have to work harder on these in order for my kid to be better.

; )

Elsie

Anonymous said...

Hi Fenying and Dr Guo,
May I know what other chinese medicine can I eat to "Bu xue"? As I understand Red dates and Red meat are not sufficient. Due I got serious anemic so want to know how can i improve my blood count so that I can prepare myself for pregnancy. Thank you sooo much.

Rgds,
Annie

Anonymous said...

嗨粉樱

请问蜂蜜可以储藏多久?可以用铁汤匙来泡吗?
谢谢!祝工作愉快

金文

Anonymous said...

hi, violet,

Urgent, can you repeat the road work annoucement earlier - along Macpherson,Aljunied Road. I am going to that area later. I hope I will not caught in the jam.

Thanks very much.

ailing.

Anonymous said...

hi fenying,
Can u let me know how can I listen love 972 radio station thru internet? I love ur programmme very much, I listen to it everyday but now i'm at outstation (Malaysia)no radio with me. So the only way I can listen is to internet service.
Will Dr.Christopher Chong coming today?
I tried mediacorp radio but cant get thru.. msg.. "This service currently not available" so how le...

Thanks..
Ann

Anonymous said...

hi fenying,
Can u let me know how can I listen love 972 radio station thru internet? I love ur programmme very much, I listen to it everyday but now i'm at outstation (Malaysia)no radio with me. So the only way I can listen is to internet service.
Will Dr.Christopher Chong coming today?
I tried mediacorp radio but cant get thru.. msg.. "This service currently not available" so how le...

Thanks..
Ann

Anonymous said...

hi fenying,
Can u let me know how can I listen love 972 radio station thru internet? I love ur programmme very much, I listen to it everyday but now i'm at outstation (Malaysia)no radio with me. So the only way I can listen is to internet service.
Will Dr.Christopher Chong coming today?
I tried mediacorp radio but cant get thru.. msg.. "This service currently not available" so how le...

Thanks..
Ann

Anonymous said...

hi fenying,
Can u let me know how can I listen love 972 radio station thru internet? I love ur programmme very much, I listen to it everyday but now i'm at outstation (Malaysia)no radio with me. So the only way I can listen is to internet service.
Will Dr.Christopher Chong coming today?
I tried mediacorp radio but cant get thru.. msg.. "This service currently not available" so how le...

Thanks..
Ann

Anonymous said...

Hi Fenying & Dr. Liu:

你们好。我儿子现在13个多月大,最近他的身体经常出一些红色的疹子 (已经持续一个多星期了),就好像被蚊子叮咬了一样,一粒一粒的,前胸后背,手臂,腿上都有,尤其早上起来以后很多,但是几个钟头以后就会慢慢消失。但是到了下午或晚上又会出来,过了一阵子又会慢慢消失,这到底是怎么回事?是风疹吗?要注意些什么?怎么治疗?可以冲凉吗?谢谢。

Anonymous said...

Hi Fenying & Dr. Liu:

你们好。我儿子现在13个多月大,最近他的身体经常出一些红色的疹子 (已经持续一个多星期了),就好像被蚊子叮咬了一样,一粒一粒的,前胸后背,手臂,腿上都有,尤其早上起来以后很多,但是几个钟头以后就会慢慢消失。但是到了下午或晚上又会出来,过了一阵子又会慢慢消失,这到底是怎么回事?是风疹吗?要注意些什么?怎么治疗?可以冲凉吗?谢谢。(他没有发烧,食欲,玩耍,睡觉都没有什么变化,一切正常)thanks a lot.
Mrs. Tan

Anonymous said...

Hi Violet

thank you for telling us how to create our own blog.

jane

Anonymous said...

Hi Violet

thank you for telling us how to create our own blog.

jane

Anonymous said...

Hi Violet
Last week miss your show at Courts.
Tomorrow I'll go Expo support you.
And also grab the things on offer.
; )
Choo

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